Comments on: 40 Relationship Spoilers

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 05:54:06 +0000

hi ruchita,
thanks for stopping by. if i understand your question correctly it’s YES & NO. If you are already involved with someone (dating, married, courting….) and you are fantasizing about or in simple terms lusting after someone else , then it’s a potential threat to your relationship. If you are not dating anyone but is thinking constructively (thinking of dating, imagining how you’d be together, what you would do, if you would be happy or have fun…) i don’t see that as a threat as long as it’s healthy. The only things that could happen is you could want more attention, like the persons company more, feel shy, want to do more things together, flirt a bit till you start seeing each other. But I must caution if there are signals that the other party isnt interested, then it’s time to slow down on those thoughts. keep being friends and get to meet other people.
I hope i’ve answered your question. If not let me know.
Thanks
Take care

By: Ruchita

Ruchita — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 18:12:01 +0000

Hey
You have listed really good points in above article and I have a question that though I dont have any boyfriend or partner or any such relationship but I do have friends ……..best friends so the point you have suggested above about fantasizing being in relationship with others does it affects in such a relationship?????

By: Erin

Erin — Tue, 12 Jan 2010 15:36:32 +0000

Those are excellent points in damaging behavior to a relationship. I think in building positive relationships, have fun together, maintain respect for the other person, desire to have a successful relationship.

You have a wonderful site.
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By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 02:20:23 +0000

Thanks nimia for stopping by and your comment

By: nimia

nimia — Mon, 28 Dec 2009 02:06:44 +0000

Hi Ayo… such a great post. Thanks for sharing this list.
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