Comments on: 46 Things To Do, When People Don’t Like You.

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 08:10:26 +0000

wise words here belinda. i think you dont notice much whether you are liked or not because yu’ve accepted who you are and just gone ahead living life

By: Belinda Munoz

Belinda Munoz — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 23:41:33 +0000

A wise person told me when I was very young, “It’s not that they don’t like you, it’s that they don’t know you.” I often think this when I sense I’m not liked. The operative word is “when”. I don’t much notice these days whether I’m liked or not. I strive for at least civility, something we all are capable of.

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Vote on this article at blogengage.com — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:19:52 +0000

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By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 12:41:20 +0000

hi patty,
how are you? It seems everyone is taking the stance of loving/liking yourself first(not in a selfish manner), being comfortable with who you are and like you said simply moving on with the affairs of life
it was also great to have you contribute to the life skills magazine.
thanks

By: Patty - Why Not Start Now?

Patty - Why Not Start Now? — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 05:52:36 +0000

Hi Ayo – Lots to think about here. One thing I’ve noticed is that often people worry about being judged (and thus disliked) by others before they have any indication that this will happen. It becomes a powerful story that has no basis in truth. So I think the key is to realize that what other people think of us is not our business. Better just to move on.
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