Comments on: 7 Lessons Learnt From A Break Up

By: Neil

Neil — Thu, 20 Oct 2011 08:35:28 +0000

Hi Ayo. I’ve recently split up with my boyfriend and it came as quite a shock as I thought we were getting on great. I’ve been left with disbelief and questions. Thinking the reason why was not really the reason. My confidence and self esteem is on the floor and your article has really helped so thank you

By: jenny

jenny — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 13:46:46 +0000

Thank you so much AYO!Am undergoing a very serious heartbreak.you have given me a reason to face tomorrow with confidence.
I believe life has to move on.furthermore Jesus came to earth took a human form was betrayed by a very close friend yet he forgave.Who am i not to forgive and forget?

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Sun, 30 May 2010 14:26:06 +0000

hi sibyl,
how are you?
thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment. thanks for also emphasizing on the need to recover, get restored and move on.
enjoy the rest of the day

By: Sibyl - alternaview

Sibyl - alternaview — Sat, 29 May 2010 17:27:53 +0000

Ayo: Great post and such an important article. I think so often that when we have breakups we get so tangled up in our emotions that we lost sight of the need to have an approach that will allow us to recover and move on. Consequently, we end up just reacting to our emotions day be day and allow them to be the driving force in our life. However, what we really need is a structured approach and a way to restore whatever part of ourselves we need to so that we can move on and move forward.
Sibyl – alternaview´s last blog ..How to Maintain the Best Frame of Mind Everyday – All Day

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Wed, 26 May 2010 14:28:41 +0000

hi dawn,
great to have you here and you have raised an important point on carefully planning out one’s future, forecasting what he/she wants to do or get from life in the absence of a partner.