A Letter To My Readers

by Ayo Olaniyan on December 15, 2011

in Purpose

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Hello Everyone

Hope you’ve had a lovely day so far.

I felt it was necessary to provide you with an update on how far the blog has come in 2011.

Although the year has been slightly difficult, one can look back and appreciate the gift of life, support from family, friends, colleagues, bloggers, readers…..

The blog is also gradually attaining the status of being a community and I’m so grateful and thankful to the wonderful people I’ve come across while embarking on this journey

The last three months have been extremely busy due to taking on more responsibilities at work, new childcare schedules blah blah and I accept there have been times were I’ve been totally absent from the blogosphere.

My sincere apologies to everyone who felt I should be doing more on the blog, posts, magazine, radio, social media…. I am trying my best to stay on top of things (as much as possible) but it’s important to emphasize, one can’t really bite off more than he/she can chew.

There were a few targets set at the beginning of 2011 and I must confess not all have been met.

Reasons: some were beyond my control, others got on the bandwagon of procrastination, then there were also instances were I was simply lazy on some tasks and finally time constraints.

But the bottom line is; this blog would be nowhere without the support of the readers, subscribers and bloggers who have graciously given their time and efforts to see it grow and mature.

The Blog Discovering Purpose:

The aim of this blog is to provide information which :

  • Is a source of inspiration and encouragement to individuals.
  • Gives/Promotes hope and optimism.
  • Improves Relationships
  • Focuses on life skills development.
  • Creates a fulfilling and purpose driven life……………………..

and I hope it’s done so in it’s own little way for the year 2011.

There are areas that still need to be worked on such as:

  • Design, Web Layout and Simplicity
  • More Blog Content with fewer/no grammatical errors.
  • Guest posting on other blogs(I think I had only 2/3 published in the whole year)(Please note: There’s also the opportunity to guest post on this blog any time. Please read for further information.)
  • Possibly changing the design/format of The Life Skills Magazine
  • Increasing the blogs presence on social media(i.e. Twitter, facebook,)
  • Increasing the number of subscribers from 751 to 2000.

Blogging Schedule

After careful thoughts and consideration I’ve decided to stick to publishing one article each week for now. This would include guest posts if available. I know there’s a school of thought which suggests that a daily blogging schedule results in an increase in traffic and blog ranking but I ‘m not sure this would suit my style/concept of blogging.

Current Projects

The current projects I’m working on are as follows:

Listening Helps Program

In addition to blogging, working etc., I also run a one to one counselling or coaching service offered to individuals who want to share or talk about their current life struggles.

The program is designed to listen carefully and attentively to the individual; in a non judgemental manner and it takes the format of online chat sessions, telephone sessions and email exchanges.

Please read here for further information and you can check out my profile page.

The Life Skills Magazine

The magazine would be two years in February 2012 and it’s been great running each edition. I am so grateful to everyone who has contributed to the magazine each month. The magazine would be nowhere without your support .

It’s not been easy to run, costs money but it’s worth the time and effort because it’s a dream that has become a reality.

A quick reminder of what it is:-

The Life Skills Magazine is a personal development magazine available to email subscribers of this blog and it comprises of articles from different bloggers who are either authors, psychologists, psychotherapists, life coaches, counsellors, social workers, run their own businesses…….. and are heavily involved in personal development.

I’ve been asked about printing/delivering hard copies. It sounds like a good idea but not so sure about the costs… laugh!!

I am open various suggestions that would help in improving the quality of the magazine.

A BIG THANK YOU TO:

Galen Pearl of 10 Steps To Finding Your Happy Place

Barbara  Zarrella of Restoring Your Inner Self

Karen Cripps of  The Reinvention Tour

Stuart Mills of Unlock The Door

Frank Jennings of A Spark Starts

Amy Karet of Actual Amy

Bryan Thompson of Elevation Life

Ajen Busher of AM Experience 

Tara Miller of  PsychologyDegrees.Net

Catriona Boyle of The Counselling Directory

Jonathan Figaro of The Drop Out Kid

M.Farouk Radwan of 2knowmyself.com

Steve Aitchison of Change Your Thoughts

Ken Wert of Meant To Be Happy

Linda Hewett of the Positive Spin Blog

Evan Hadkins of Living Authentically

Dominique Small of 4 Walls And A View

JK Hustle of The Hustlers Notebook

Matt Jeffrey of MajDesigns.

I really appreciate all your support and contributions which has resulted in the growth of the magazine.

Anyone is welcome to contribute to the magazine as long as the article is related to personal development and it gets submitted on time. Please read here for further information.

************Please look out for the Christmas edition**********

Purpose Radio:

This is the newest development on the blog and I am so grateful to all the podcasters, bloggers, lecturers for granting me the permission to broadcast their material.

I look forward to expanding the station/programmes next year as well developing more content.

I am still a novice in this game and is still fiddling with the software but I am open to any form of advice, support or criticism of the station.

Speaking Engagements

This has kicked off on a small scale but I believe it would grow with time.

A special thank you to all the centres, support homes, communities , churches and youth clubs who opened their doors with a warm welcome and allowed me be a source of inspiration to them.

Please Note: I’m available for speaking engagements in youth groups, support centres, motivational forums or seminars, churches, schools ……………. within the United Kingdom.

Please click here to contact me.

Now the bad part(laugh!!)

I have abandoned the two books I was writing due to time constraints, domestic issues and the inability to do as much research as I want to.

However, it’s my intention to pick up this project in 2012 and we would see how it goes.

Finally, I hope I haven’t been too boring.

Once again, A BIG THANK YOU TO REGULAR COMMENTERS OR ANYONE WHO HAS LEFT A COMMENT ON THIS BLOG.

Thanks for taking time out to read this.

Enjoy the rest of the day.

Ayo.

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{ 28 comments… read them below or add one }

sensus communis December 15, 2011 at 4:09 pm

well done ayo
good job

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 3:57 pm

thanks for your kind words sensus communis
have a great day

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Stuart December 15, 2011 at 5:58 pm

Hi Ayo,

You’re doing all that you can and that’s good enough as far as I’m concerned. I’ve recently been in a similar position, and only now am I coming up for air and tasting the sweet sensation of freedom. It tastes good.

Take as long as you need my friend, we’ll all be here to support you :-)

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 3:59 pm

hello stuart
how are you? thanks for your support each time. i really appreciate you and all you do.
take care and give my love to sam

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emmanuel December 15, 2011 at 6:28 pm

ayo
what’s going bro?
you always keep it real thats why you excel man.
happy for you all the way and i enjoy reading your blog all the time.
peace

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 4:08 pm

hello emmanuel
i am glad you enjoy reading the blog
hope to see more of you and thanks for the support each time

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Ken Wert December 15, 2011 at 7:03 pm

Ayo, we love you and all you do. Only go as fast as you can go. One step at a time. That’s all anyone can do. Stay close to your family as you build your business and know we’re here enjoying the journey with you.

And thanks for all the inspiration you provide! It’s real and deeply appreciated.

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 4:02 pm

ahh!!! Ken
thanks for your kind and inspiring words. i really appreciate your support each time.
i will be dashing off to your blog in a few minutes.
take care and enjoy the rest of the day

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Cheryl December 15, 2011 at 8:03 pm

Ayo, I admire your openess and honesty but the challenges you have had in 2011. I am wishing you contined success with the blog and your other ventures in the days and months ahead; especially for the year 2012.

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 4:03 pm

hello cheryl
how are you?
it’s great to have you around again after such a long time.
i look forward to all that’s to happen in 2012.
take care and have a lovely day

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PST TRIUMPH-ABATAN OLUMIDE December 15, 2011 at 8:53 pm

MY BELOVED BROTHER,ALL I COULD SAY AFTER READING THE CONTENT ABOVE IS TO THANK GOD FOR YOUR LIFE. ALL YOU HAVE COVERED YOU HAD BECAUSE OF GOD’S GRACE UPON YOUR LIFE. WELL DONE AND I BELIEVE THAT 2012 WILL BE FAR BETTER THAN NOW. REJOICE BROTHER, AND I SAY A BIG CONGRATULATIONS. LOVE TO YOUR FAMILY. STAY BLESSED AND SHALOM.

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 4:06 pm

hello pastor triumph(olumide)
how are you?
it’s great to know the blog is being read in south korea. talk about covering nations…
thanks for your uplifting words and please look out for my email
love to the family.

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Evan December 15, 2011 at 10:01 pm

Hi Ayo,

Thanks for the appreciation.

It sounds like you’ve done an enormous amount this year. I hope the blog and mag continue to do well, and that you have a great year, in 2012.

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Ayo Olaniyan December 17, 2011 at 4:07 pm

hello evan
how are you?
you have always been there to support all i do even with your tight schedules and constraints. i really appreciate EVERYTHING you’ve done.
take care and love to the family

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Galen Pearl December 19, 2011 at 3:17 am

I’m so honored to be part of your community. Thanks for your refreshing honesty about what you can do and not do. Some bloggers appear to have unlimited time and resources. I find it reassuring to hear that you have to make choices to do one thing and let go of another. Like a real human being! Like me!

I would like to hear more about your speaking engagements. What do you speak about? To what kind of audiences? How do you like that (compared to writing)?

Looking forward to 2012 with your community!

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:20 am

hello galen

how are you and compliments of the season to you.

thanks for all the support and i look forward to our progress in 2012

with reference to my speaking engagements:

i focus on self esteem issues, relationships, facing difficulties with a vew to getting inspired or having hope…… self worth and acceptance(strictly everything i write about on this blog or has experienced)

my audience range from small youth groups filled with teenagers,the homeless, victims of abuse, middle aged groups, upwardly mobile men/women, churches and connecting with people in hopices, hostels and homes.

Speaking compared to writing hmmh!! For me it involves the same amount of preparation but i prefer speaking more when the opportunity arises.

Do have a lovely day

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Alex Mangini December 20, 2011 at 3:04 pm

Ayo,

Sounds like you are keeping busy at least. :-D This is my first time here and I admire all the things you have going on, plus the fact you empower your community.

Can’t wait to read more of your posts.

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:22 am

hello alex
how are you and welcome to the blog.
it’s great to have you contribute and i look forward to connecting with you/your blog.
hope to hear from you again.
take care and have a lovely day

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John Sherry December 20, 2011 at 4:20 pm

No, THANK YOU Ayo for all you have done for all of us – for your never ending supply of support, good nature, help, encouragement, advice, insight, and true spirit. We couldn’t have got through 2011 without you. Thank you for being you and all you do. You are a gentleman and a wonderful human being. Be blessed for a warm and loving Christmas!

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:24 am

hello john
how are you?
i am deeply touched by your kind words.
thanks for all the support in 2011 and hope 100% champions is gaining so much momentum.
thanks for all you do.
take care and enjoy the rest of the day

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Melody | Deliberate Receiving December 20, 2011 at 5:40 pm

HI Ayo,

No need to apologize. Anyone who is complaining has obviously never had a blog of their own. People have no idea how much work it is! You’ve done a wonderful job here and you should be nothing but proud of what you’ve accomplished here this year. I look forward to what you’ll come up with in 2012.

Huge hugs!

Melody

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:28 am

hello melody
how are you?
thanks for your support always and i am so grateful for the insightful comments you’ve left each time as well as inspiring one of the articles i wrote a while back.
i look forward to a fantastic 2012 with you.
take care and enjoy the rest of the day

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Ajen December 21, 2011 at 7:59 pm

Hi Ayo… Like Galen, I too am honored to be a part of your community… and am glad to have access to your wisdom. You are very open with your thoughts.

I have no doubt that you will do extraordinary well as you work towards your goals. I continue to look forward to your posts.

My best to you…

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:29 am

hello ajen
how are you and thanks for your kind words
i look forward to our progress in 2012
take care and enjoy the rest of the day

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Noch Noch December 22, 2011 at 5:14 am

can’t really track back to how I came across this blog. but I’m glad I did. Truly inspirational, esp i open a new page for my own writing from corporate life. 2012 will be great. The blogosphere has given me lots of pleasant surprises and encouragement from everywhere, to simply, be me :)
Noch Noch

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Ayo Olaniyan December 22, 2011 at 11:33 am

hello noch noch
how are you and welcome to the blog
i am glad you find sections of the blog inspirational and if there’s anyway you think i can help please let me know.
hope to hear from you again.
take care and enjoy the rest of the day

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William Veasley December 25, 2011 at 10:32 pm

It is hard to always stay on top of things. In my case, life situations have got in the way of doing the things I love. I wish I could of been better prepared because then maybe I could have still been on my “A” game.
The only thing we can do is learn from our mistakes. Slowly, but surely I am getting back on track. I am working on developing more patience because I know that will be important as I go through life.
I have been told that even the rabbit lost the race to the turtle.

Keep up the good work and I look forward to reading more of your articles!

God bless,
WIlliam Veasley

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Dia December 28, 2011 at 12:56 am

Hi Ayo,

It has been great reading your articles this year. Wish you more success and prosperity in the coming year 2012. Keep up doing the excellent work my friend. :)

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