From the category archives:

Relationships

You Can’t Please Everyone

June 27, 2011
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This post is dedicated to anyone who doesn’t feel appreciated for who they are, the things they do and as a result have a low sense of self worth.
The Good News Is:
You are not alone and I sincerely hope you can draw some strength and encouragement from reading this post. It’s also important you understand the context and concept of the article.
Abraham Lincoln said “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time.”
It’s a painful experience [...]

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I Just Found Out She’s Been Cheating On Me

June 2, 2011
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This post is a response to an email received a few days ago. It’s dedicated to anyone going through a major crisis in their relationship.
While I may not understand its huge impact on your life; I write from experience having gone through difficult relationships and also counselling people struggling to be in control of their emotions after betrayal.
The Free Online Dictionary defines a cheat as someone who is unfaithful to his or her partner. There is a conscious attempt to lead astray, deceive and most times desert loved ones.
The whole episode is quite frustrating because the act of cheating isn’t [...]

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Twenty Five Ways To De-Clutter Your Mind

May 7, 2011
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Scientists say memory lapses can be blamed on too much irrelevant information and you need to de-clutter or spring-clean your mind. (Culled From The Daily Mail)
The experiments performed by Canadian researchers show that memory lapses that come with age are not simply due to the brain slowing down only but can also be blamed on the well-used brain finding it more and more difficult to stop irrelevant information interfering with the task in hand.
The first step in the study was to compare the working memory of the young and old volunteers.
In the context of the study:
The younger volunteers, who had an average [...]

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What Makes You A Good Parent?

April 22, 2011
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It appears the media wanted to focus on parents this week because there have been a few articles and researches published targeting our parenting skills and habits.
Don’t parents have such a hard time laugh!!!
The Daily Mail published the following articles:
Too much TV is bad for children: The heart attack risk facing young couch potatoes. (I agree)
Playing music as a child will help you stay sharp in your old age.
Crying babies are more likely to grow into problem children.
Hmmh!! I thought it was all over with reference to reading articles in the newspapers aimed at parents until I read a psychology journal [...]

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What’s On Your Mind?

March 5, 2011
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What’s On Your Mind?
This post is dedicated to people struggling physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. It focuses on the need for you to voice out your fears and concerns in order to feel much better and carry on with life.
Once again;
What’s On Your Mind?
I suggest you;
Talk About It!!!!!
I came across the following facts today:
In the employment sector (United Kingdom)
Most UK employees prefer to suffer in silence with a health concern or personal issue than tell their boss or colleagues.
In the poll done:

Only 4% of employees would approach their boss with a health concern
21% of employees [...]

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