Comments on: I’m sick and tired of life

By: Elsie Harripersad

Elsie Harripersad — Fri, 27 Jan 2012 02:02:48 +0000

I am so tired of life. My Daughter is in the middle of a custody/access battle and the lawyer has already charged us $13,000. She only met my daughter once, This lawyer encourages phone calls and e-mails and is never able to meet my daughter after hours (it is Year-end) and my daughter is afraid of losing her job.

My husand knows everything. His idea of communicating is talking very loud. He never listens to anyone. No one understands and I cannot try suicide because if it does not work I will bring shame to my kids ( I have 2 grown children) Also if it does work they will not be able to get insurance.
This legal issue is too heavy a burden – A child’s lawyer was appointed. On and On and On. Not sure how long I can last. I am going mad!
My daughter’s ex was abusive and no one believes her. Now he cries when he talks to the investigators so they believe him.
Anyone can give me a shoulder to cry on?

By: Beck

Beck — Fri, 06 Jan 2012 10:34:11 +0000

Well there is always comfort in reading others pain and I genuinely wanted to say something for positive thinking and I like the outer space advice. . We must do what works for us as we cannot please everybody, and trying to will bring you right down. I am not as bad as I once felt but recently I have become very frustrated with life.. The saddest thing I have noticed is my lack of compassìon. . And mainly for those closest to me. I just feel angry and want to run away especially from my 11 going on 15 year old daughter. I do feel i have failed her and selfishly brought her into the world. But am working on my attitude. Just feel most of the time .tired of this place. Let’s hope we all can find the answer.

By: anonymous11

anonymous11 — Fri, 23 Dec 2011 07:01:49 +0000

I gotta say this really helped me and i hope it really helped other people too. It made me realized that im not the only one with this kind of problems. In my case my biggest problem in life is insecurity. It’s hard for me to be confident, i doubt of myself in almost everything i do, everything stresses me out absolutely everything, i always have these fear of doing something wrong or making a mistake because of my insecurity. I also have gotten severe anxiety attacks to the point i think im going nuts. It’s really frustrating because the fear blocks me, it fills my mind with negative thoughts, sometimes i try to understand how this had come so far, recently it has gotten worst and worst, i’ve stopped doing my hobbies and i practically don’t do nothing the whole day. Even the smallest problem can seem like a huge tsunami for me. i spend almost all of the time thinking and thinking in all the issues of life and time goes by and is just horrible i can’t enjoy anything nor concentrate on anything my mind keeps running wild sometimes i even hit my head to see if it helps because of the desperation. It makes me unhappy and miserable, sometimes i just wanna relax and enjoy life but my mind keeps bugging me and the fear and all the negative thoughts disturb me. I just spend at least 5 minutes of the day relax, and i don’t understand because im a teenager with just few responsibilities but still i get stress for everything. I know that sometimes im overreacting for some issues but i just can’t help getting worried. I just hope it ends and pray to God!

By: G.Williams

G.Williams — Thu, 22 Dec 2011 11:17:53 +0000

Thanks for the advices I hope that they would work

By: Barbara

Barbara — Tue, 01 Nov 2011 16:02:22 +0000

I know what you mean. I’ve lived in the same city all my life, but have no friends except a mentally-ill-and-won’t-admit-it husband and a bizarrely manic 3-year-old son. If I wanted to change jobs and had to provide personal references, I’d be in trouble. I am very lonely. The only people I meet are holy-rollers (I work at a religious TV station), or people who just want to use me.