Comments on: Resolving Conflict In Relationships

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 06:47:46 +0000

hello lauren,
how are you?
i’m glad you found the article useful and yes listening to each others perspective is something we must develop. it’s benefits judging from your example are a healthy relationship, respect and love for one another.
have a lovely day.

By: Lauren

Lauren — Wed, 07 Apr 2010 02:25:36 +0000

Hi Ayo,

You give so many awesome and important suggestions. This would be great to keep on the refrigerator! If someone followed these guidelines, however perfectly, what a great recipe for successful resolution of conflict.

It is challenging when our “buttons” get pushed.

I have two friends who are a couple and they are amazing. They are both very strong people and I love how they are able to challenge one another in the best of ways. They are not upset, they simply voice their truth.

Their relationship is great and I think it is because they truly listen to the other person’s perspective, and most of all they have incredible respect for and adore one another. They have the other person’s best interests at heart. It is lovely.

Excellent post – and that is on the real!
Lauren´s last blog ..Can You Think Outside the Box?

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 19:44:25 +0000

hi olusegun,
how are you?
i am currently working on a book and you’d get to read/hear about it.
i am glad you found this useful.

By: Olusegun

Olusegun — Tue, 06 Apr 2010 17:23:46 +0000

Ayo, when are you going to write a book and sell?

I need to copy this put and meditate on each till it becomes a part of my subconscious.

Thanks Bro

By: Ayo Olaniyan

Ayo Olaniyan — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 07:48:17 +0000

hi cheryl,
i am fine thank you.
thanks for your contribution to the topic and i couldnt agree more on the issue of listening. once our emotions, ego, misunderstandings get in the way it becomes very difficult to act sensibly at times with a view to resolving conflict.
i also believe we should confront the situation rather than running away from it because as you’ve mentioned it becomes worse, you lose sleep, there’s so much hurt, you feel manipulated…..
take care