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I am haunted by my past life

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This post is dedicated to those who have experienced hurtful things in their past and are struggling hard to face life each day. I want to commend you for being strong and of good courage. We all have past experiences, some pleasant, others distasteful. It takes guts to go through painful events and still be on top, knowing that our past has a way of conditioning our PRESENT & FUTURE STATE.
It’s also targeted at those who have flash backs of the wrong deeds they done to others, reminding them to seek reconciliation (if possible), get help (where necessary) and move on [...]

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Dealing with rejection

Feeling rejected
Everyone has experienced rejection in certain ways. It is a painful season in our lives and the worst thoughts often come to our minds. We experience rejection in many ways eg. having a painful or an abusive childhood experience, feeling unloved by people that surround us, going through a divorce or a break up in a relationship, turned down at a job interview, losing your job…..
Rejection occurs when our identified needs are not met. These needs could be emotional, psychological, financial, physical, spiritual and it’s effects are as follows:
• Difficulty in trusting people (for the fear of being hurt)
• Anger
• Pessimism
• Inferiority Complex
• Isolation imposed by [...]

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Positive Identity

Positive Identity
There are many people in the world today that would prefer to be someone else. They want to be taller, slimmer, have fairer skin; popular,talk like, walk like….. you name it. Why do we have such dubious desires? Eight words. WE ARE NOT COMFORTABLE IN OUR OWN SKIN!
In college, we have had various groups and formed cliques whom we felt we were important in various stages of our lives. Some groups showed wealth, some demonstrated intelligence or brilliance, and some exhibited good looks and charm. If you did not fit into any of these categories, you were either sidelined [...]

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