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low self esteem

Are You Wearing A Disguise

February 19, 2010
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I just finished watching the movie Liar Liar by Jim Carrey for the third or fourth time, but I must say, it had a different spin on it today. The whole idea of lawyers being liars and his son wanting his dad to tell the truth for once in his life time, got me thinking about how we wear disguises by pretending to be who we aren’t and creating an unrealistic world in our minds.
Oscar Wilde states ‘Be yourself; because everyone else is already taken.’
So what is a disguise and is it necessary you wear one?
The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it [...]

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50 Ways To Get Over A Broken Relationship (Love Relationship Series III)

October 19, 2009
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This is the third series on ‘Love Relationships’ and the aim is to look at ways in which we can resolve or get over broken relationships.
A broken relationship is simply an end to a relationship based on love, trust, affection, friendship etc. It can happen to anyone, at any age with/without warning. It is not only tagged to spouses, marriages or engagements but also affects friends, families, work colleagues…..
This post will briefly address how it occurs and suggest 50 Ways To Get Over A Broken Relationship.
The following are causes of broken relationships:

Distance: This occurs when friends lose contact with each [...]

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I am haunted by my past life

October 11, 2009
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This post is dedicated to those who have experienced hurtful things in their past and are struggling hard to face life each day. I want to commend you for being strong and of good courage. We all have past experiences, some pleasant, others distasteful. It takes guts to go through painful events and still be on top, knowing that our past has a way of conditioning our PRESENT & FUTURE STATE.
It’s also targeted at those who have flash backs of the wrong deeds they done to others, reminding them to seek reconciliation (if possible), get help (where necessary) and move on [...]

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6 Ways to Break Out of Prison

August 15, 2009
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Did I get your attention?
I hope I did. I chose to leave out the word Low Self Esteem. It should actually read; 6 Ways to break out of The Low Self Esteem Prison.
Why use the word prison? A Prison is a place of physical confinement, isolation and restriction to various levels of personal freedom.
The post in context:
I feel the word prison captures the effects of experiencing low self esteem which are isolation, little or no self worth, frustration, depression………
Low Self Esteem refers to the perception of an individual, viewing himself as inadequate, unworthy, unlovable, and/or incompetent. Once this is established [...]

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Positive Identity

May 14, 2009

Positive Identity
There are many people in the world today that would prefer to be someone else. They want to be taller, slimmer, have fairer skin; popular,talk like, walk like….. you name it. Why do we have such dubious desires? Eight words. WE ARE NOT COMFORTABLE IN OUR OWN SKIN!
In college, we have had various groups and formed cliques whom we felt we were important in various stages of our lives. Some groups showed wealth, some demonstrated intelligence or brilliance, and some exhibited good looks and charm. If you did not fit into any of these categories, you were either sidelined [...]

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