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Warning: Brace Yourselves!! It’s a long post, but it’s straight from the heart.
Hello Everyone
Hope you all had a lovely day and Thank God it’s Friday.(laugh)
This post reflects on the position of the blog at the moment and the new projects coming up in a short while.
It’s gradually becoming a community and I’m so grateful and thankful to the wonderful people I’ve come across while embarking on this journey.
So;
To all the subscribers, those who leave comments regularly, visitors….., I say Thank You for contributing immensely to the progress and development of this blog.
I also want to thank Steve Aitchison for providing a platform for me on his blog and allowing me partner with him on a project called ‘Ask The Coach’.
It’s not been an easy journey because there’s always a need to strike a balance between family(the most important part of my life), work, postgraduate studies, private practice, blogging and social media(I’m terrible at this and needs help urgently) but it is worth every time and effort.
Why Discovering Purpose?
Discovering Purpose is all about creating a purpose driven life through personal development and I believe focusing on issues of life (resolving the internal and external conflicts) will give the much needed boost to take a leap forward in life.
Current Projects
In the course of the journey, there have been investments made in several projects. Some have worked in promoting the blog while others have just been a waste of time and money (not mentioning any names, but be very cautious of various article submitters, seo specialists, ads and the likes…. now I use none).
The current projects I’m working on are as follows:
Guest Posts:
My articles have been published on the following blogs:
6 aliens (Ben Lumley)
Change Your Thoughts (Steve Aitichison)
Life Optimizer (Donald Latumahina)
There are a few more in the pipeline; some due to be published soon and the others rejected lol!! YES REJECTED!! because the style of writing and school of thought for their blog is different (was I gutted? Err!! yes, but I respect their decisions. Who knows, I may do it in the future; anyway it’s so funny one of the rejected posts has received the most traffic on this blog in two months lol!!!).
If you are a blogger and won’t mind a guest post from me even if you reject it lol!! please let me know.
There’s also the opportunity to guest post on this blog any time. Please read for further information.
Blog Posts:
After careful thoughts and consideration I would be publishing only two posts on this blog each week for now. This would include guest posts if available.
Coaching Services:
In addition to blogging, working etc., I also run one to one coaching sessions online, face to face and via email or telephone. This is strictly by mutual agreement and only takes on board 5 clients each month for now(2 spaces left for April). Please read here for further information and you can check out my profile.
Please Note: I’m CRB checked and abides by the regulations of the Counselling Society United Kingdom.
Speaking Engagements:
This has kicked off on a small scale but I expect it to grow with time.
A special thank you to all the youth groups, singles or married groups, support homes, communities and churches that have opened their doors with a warm welcome and allowed me to be a source of inspiration to them.
Please Note: I’m available for speaking engagements in youth groups, support centres, motivational forums or seminars and churches(speaking from a biblical perspective on life issues) within the United Kingdom.
Please click here to contact me.
The Life Skills Magazine:
This is the latest baby of discovering purpose. It is a personal development magazine available to email subscribers of this blog and it comprises of articles from different bloggers who are either authors, psychologists, psychotherapists, life coaches, counsellors, social workers, run their own businesses…….. and are heavily involved in personal development.
Anyone is welcome to contribute to the magazine as long as the article is related to personal development and it gets submitted on time. Please read here for further information.
Please Note: The next edition will be published next week and you can subscribe here to receive a copy of the magazine.
A huge THANK YOU goes out to those who have supported me in this dream. It’s not been easy to run, costs money but it’s worth the effort and time because it’s a dream that’s become a reality.
Without your contributions, The Life Skills Magazine would still be a fantasy and I really want you to know I appreciate everyone of you.( I MEAN IT)
Thank you so much guys:
Evan Hadkins (Wellbeingandhealth.net)
Patricia Bechtold (Why Not Start Now)
Steve Aitchison(Change Your Thoughts)
Christine Livingston (A Different Kind Of Work)
James Richmond (The Infopreneur)
Ben Lumley (6 Aliens)
Jen Smith (Reach Our Dreams)
Cheryl Paris (Cheryl Paris Blog)
John Anyasor (HiLife2B)
Mathew Jeffrey (who brings the magazine to life with the graphics and design)
New Projects
There are a few projects that would spring up during the course of the year such as :
Books:
I’m currently working on an ebook titled My Thoughts Are Rubbish. This focuses on negative thoughts, how they affect you, a few ways to boost your emotions, stay happy, have a good time and live with a purpose.
There is also a book titled Don’t Give Up On Life in the pipeline. You can tell I’m passionate about this subject because I’ve blogged on it and there are excerpts in The Life Skills Magazine( not to give too much away for the 3rd edition).
The post focused on self harm but the book will expand it’s territories. It will look at various approaches(person centred, positive psychology, cognitive behavioural therapy and relational/relationship), relate them to our present day mode of life or living with a view to giving hope to anyone who is on the verge of losing it completely.
I’m open to any form of advice please with regards to self publishing, editing, copy writing, proof reading……. Please Help If You Can.
Competition:
One thing about my late dad was his passion for reading. He had a huge library of books and believe me it was massive.(still is).
I want to start running competitions each month with a view to giving out one book each month. I won’t give out books I haven’t read or reviewed personally for integrity purposes and it must also be beneficial to the winner.
The first competition is scheduled for the 26th of April and because it’s a special day (can you guess?), I would be giving out 7 books to 7 winners. I’m not sure of the modalities involved in running a competition, delivery periods, processes etc. but I will read up on it and ask questions. If you can offer any assistance, please let me know.
Video Posts:
My friend Ben Lumley sent me an email with tips on how to produce a video for the blog. I also read Steves’ blog yesterday and it contained a lot of information. This is something I’m looking into seriously and is working towards it.
Finally, I hope I haven’t been too boring.
Once again, A BIG THANK YOU TO REGULAR COMMENTERS OR ANYONE WHO HAS LEFT A COMMENT ON THIS BLOG.
Can I share a secret? You make me smileeeeeee.
This is the journey so far and be reminded it’s straight from the heart.
Thanks for taking time out to read this.
I look forward to your comments and suggestions
Ayo.

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Hi Ayo
This is fabulous progress and it’s great to be part of it. Thanks for letting me post a couple of things in your Life Skills Magazine. I think that’s a really enterprising project and I hope it continues to do well for you.
I’m very excited for you too that you’ve got some books in the pipeline. Wishing you lots of energy to keep up the progress and if I can help, just shout.
hi christine,
how are you?
thanks a lot for pointing out the closed comments issue this afternoon and a big thank you for creating time out of your busy schedules to contribute to the life skills magazine.
and yes i need all the energy i can get to finish the ebook and book.
i also really appreciate the opportunity you’ve created for me to shout when help is required.
do have a lovely weekend.
ayo,
this is really impressive and I am happy for you. I look forward to all you have in store for the future.
i am really inspired
hi emmanuel,
thanks for your kind words.
we all look forward to the future developments that would occur on this blog.
have a nice weekend man!!!
Ayo,
Excellent post. These are wonderful achievements that you have embarked on this journey. I still consdier myself a relatively new reader to your blogs, but I enjoy watching this journey for you progress forward.
You are very blessed.
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hi baker
how are you?
thanks for your kind words and i am glad you are a reader of this blog
do have a lovely weekend.
there’s nothing else to say except well done ayo.
i cant really imagine how you juggle all this around but well done.
make sure you dont work too hard to the point illness.
take care
hello kenny,
how are you?
i would always keep your advice in my head. believe me i need it.
you have a lovely weekend
Kudos! I take my hats off to you Ayo! You have come so far along your journey! Congrats on all of your accomplishments and wish you great success soon to come!
Thanks for sharing!!
Jarrod@ Optimistic Journey´s last blog ..You Know You’re Favored by God When…
hi jarrod,
how are you?
thanks a lot for the compliment bro.
you have a lovely weekend.
Ayo, hello, I visited your blog in the wee hours of a Japanese morning to find your comments section closed. I am so glad I felt like returning now – your comments section is open and flowing again.
Thank you for sharing your blog story and stepping stones – you have accomplished so much. Congratulations, Ayo!
I especially appreciate, “Can I share a secret? You make me smileeeeeee.” After some down time because of personal trauma here in Japan I just published a blog post on the S-M-I-L-E. Since you love acronyms, I hope you will stop by again to share your insights.
Greetings to you from the mountains in Japan – Catrien Ross.
Catrien Ross´s last blog ..Catrien Ross on Finding 9 Powerful Meanings in Your Smile When You Don’t Feel Like Smiling
hi catrien
how are you?
yes the comments section was closed in error. my friend christine pointed this out and i rectified it lol!!
i did read your article and i loved the acronymns. You should consider writing it as a guest post here pleaseee.
hope you feel much better.
take care
You’re doing an awesome job Ayo. Enjoying the journey with you
Ben´s last blog ..This week’s Friday Personal Development Homework
hi ben,
how are you?
thanks for your support always. i really appreciate it
have a lovely weekend
Hi Ayo,
Congratulations on your accomplishments! I enjoy watching your growth
I didn’t realize the many aspects to running a blog, until I jumped into this wonderful community. People like you keep me inspired.
I’ll be emailing you soon — I’m happy to contribute and help in any way that I can.
Have a Blessed weekend.
PS. You don’t want to know what Farmville is or get involved in any of those FB apps — they’re a time drain.
Kim´s last blog ..Clarity — Take Action and the Next Step Will Reveal Itself
hi kim,
how are you?
i’m glad i dont know anything about farmville. it would be great to you have your article for the 4th edition of the magazine.
thanks for your kind words.
have a nice weekend.
Awesome Ayo and I wish you well on this journey; it’s so nice when progress and plans are written down it feels so real..So I couldn’t help but read rigth thought this post despite your warning ..Good luck
Fatima Da´s last blog ..Are Your Personal Beliefs and Values Still Serving You?
thanks a lot for your kind comments fatima. it’s great to know you read the whole post.
have a lovely weekend.
Hey Ayo,
That’s so wonderful, the tremendous progress you have made with your blog and the community you have created with it! What you’ve done and continue to do is really inspiring. I’m also really grateful to have gotten to know you through our brief exchanges and your posts.
Take care,
Ben
hi ben,
how are you?
thanks for being instrumental to the progress of this blog through leaving comments each time you visit.
take care
Hi Ayo,
Great post. It’s wonderful to learn how far you’ve come already. Thanks for the length warning too. I came over here a couple of days ago and took heed because I was in the middle of other things. Glad to come back today when I have a little more time.
Reading about how you enjoy guest posting reminded me to mention to you what you read on GAB today. If ever you have somthing to share, you’ll be made very welcome at our place.
Apologies that I’m not as frequent a visitor as I would like and thank you for being so smiley and lovely.
Have a wonderful day ,
Eleanor
Eleanor Edwards´s last blog ..Give A Brick: Making the impossible, possible (but we’re gonna need your help)
hi eleanor,
how are you?
it would great to guest post on your site. thanks for creating an opportunity.
did you get my mail regarding the software?
let me have your comments
take care
Hi Ayo,
Had a great day. How about you? It would be a pleasure to have you over at GAB. I’ll be putting some details together in a post later in the week because I have it set up such that anyone can register as a writer and post their pieces direct to the site.
I’m very well thank you
As for your email, no, I didn’t get an email from you. Truth be told, I’ve been on pins all day after your comment this morning. It was intriguing. I’ve added my @giveabrick.com address to the form this time. Could I trouble you to re-send to there?
Many thanks for your patience,
Eleanor
Eleanor Edwards´s last blog ..Give A Brick: Making the impossible, possible (but we’re gonna need your help)
Great to hear how you are getting on and to be part of this community. btw, I just want to say how professional and inspiring the graphics on the Life Skills Magazine are.
Jen´s last blog ..Downshifting you
hi jen,
thanks for contributing to the progress of this site.
i really appreciate it.
as for the graphics on the magazine, all credits go to matt who does all the artwork.
Hi Ayo, My first time here. although it’s my first time I feel through your smile and ALL the adventures going on in your life that you shared here. I feel as though I know you. You have gone through tremendous journey and it is incredible to see all the journey unfolds. You are wonderful human being and I love seeing you smile. I see you all over blogs etc.. and I always have this nudge to visit your blog and now that I have I am truly grateful.
Thank You Ayo and May you always have a GREAT adventure in life.
You are Incredible!!!!!!!
Therese Miu´s last blog ..10 Types of People you should watch out for when your networking
hi therese,
it’s great to have you here and please feel at home anytime on this blog.
thanks for your kind words and deep wishes.
i hope to see you again
enjoy the rest of the day.
Hey . Ayo, I see that you have many projects in hand, I wish the best of luck that they become successful. Will follow your posts regularly
Ganesh Iyer´s last blog ..Fat Free Tea Latte Cheesecake
hi ganesh,
thanks once again for your kind words.
it’s encouraging to know you would be following the posts on this blog.
take care
its a good thing to see the great work and the testimonials- totally awesome.
keep the flag flying cuz..the lord’s your strength and shield.
hello seun,
how are you?
thanks for your kind words
enjoy the rest of the day
Ayo, this is aweson!!! May the Lord continually ENABLE U for aweson WORKS.
CHEERS
Tanwa